Understanding Priorities at Junctions: The Myth of "Right of Way"

I came across a video on this subject this morning and watched it before heading out for my first lesson. On the way, I encountered two drivers shouting at each other, simply because one pulled out in front of the other in slow traffic. So it gave me the idea for this blog.

When approaching a junction, how often do we hear phrases like, "I had the right of way"? It's a common belief among drivers that the road belongs to them in certain situations. But let’s set the record straight: priorities at junctions are not rights that can be taken—they are responsibilities that must be given. This distinction is crucial not only for safer driving but also for fostering a more patient and empathetic road culture.

The Reality of Priorities

Traffic rules define priorities to help create order and prevent chaos, but no driver has an absolute "right" to proceed. Giving way means acknowledging the responsibility to let another road user pass safely. Even at junctions where one driver clearly has priority—such as a main road over a minor road—it’s still vital to approach with caution and never assume that other drivers will behave predictably.

The Danger of Assumptions

One of the most dangerous habits drivers can develop is assuming that other motorists will give way when expected. A driver who appears not to give priority may not be acting out of arrogance or carelessness. Consider these possibilities:

• They may not have seen you. Sun glare, blind spots, or distractions can sometimes obscure another vehicle from view.
• They may have an emergency. For example, a parent rushing a sick child to the hospital may have their focus elsewhere.
• They might be unfamiliar with the road. Uncertain drivers at complex junctions are more likely to make errors, particularly in areas with unclear markings or signage.

Adopting a mindset of patience and understanding, rather than anger or frustration, can significantly reduce the risk of accidents.

 Reacting to Drivers Who Don’t Give Priority

It’s easy to feel annoyed—or even outraged—when another driver fails to give way as expected. The instinct to honk the horn, gesticulate, or even tailgate can arise in the heat of the moment. However, these reactions do nothing to resolve the situation and often escalate tensions.

Instead, consider these approaches:

1. Pause and assess. Avoid making snap judgments about why the other driver acted the way they did.
2. Remain calm. Take a deep breath and focus on maintaining your own safety and composure.
3. Let it go. The moment has passed. Holding on to anger only distracts you from driving safely.

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Driving With Empathy

Empathy is an underrated quality in driving. When you’re at a junction, instead of thinking in terms of "me first," adopt a mindset of "what can I do to keep everyone safe?" This could mean:

• Waiting a little longer for a hesitant driver to make their move.
• Giving extra time and space to pedestrians or cyclists who may not feel confident.
• Acknowledging that not every driver’s situation is visible—whether they are managing a medical emergency, an emotional crisis, or simply feeling overwhelmed.

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A Safer Approach to Priorities

To prioritise safety and mutual respect at junctions, keep these principles in mind:

• Always approach cautiously. Even if you think you have priority, be prepared to stop.
• Communicate clearly. Use indicators, eye contact, and polite gestures to ensure your intentions are understood.
• Don’t assume. Never take it for granted that another driver has seen you or will act in the way you expect.
• Be patient. A few extra seconds of waiting can prevent accidents and reduce stress.